Reflecting

Isn’t this what it boils down to for many of us?

 

Last week it suddenly turned cold here in Boulder, not just a few degrees colder, it dropped from about 60 degrees F one day  to 18 degrees F the next.  It snowed too.  Thankfully, it wasn’t windy.

My family and I were not ready for the change.  We piled on extra layers, wore heavier clothing, put lap blankets and drank warm beverages, but still we felt cold.

So, we did what most of those we know do, we turned up the thermostat.  We tried to just keep heated the areas of the house that we were in, a feat made much easier by having temperature controls in each room and closing door, but we found it difficult.  We whined about the cold and moaned about how uncomfortable we were.

In fairness, we hadn’t had much of a chance to get acclimated and to seal all the cracks and crevices in the insulation.  Still, it begs the question of would we able to bear the discomfort of climate irregularities?  And what would happen if we had drastic changes rapidly?  And worse still, if we didn’t have the magic thermostat to adjust to make it all better?  It is difficult to fathom.

I’ve read of houses being built now that are so well insulated they barely require any heat at all; the warmth generated within the house stays in.  As I sit here now and feel a slight movement of air from the gaps in my office window, I know how much we could benefit from securer seals.  The know-how is there to reduce our need for the thermostat, but we don’t do it.

What will it take for all of us to get serious about climate change?  How drastic will it have to be?  After the experience of the past weekend, I wonder more about my tolerance.  We don’t have air conditioning and we manage to tolerate the heat of the summers quite comfortably.  What makes it so much more difficult in the winter?

What does my little thermostat have to do with the big, BIG problem of global climate change?  A lot, I’m afraid.  It represents individual over community, self over other, comfort over necessity, same ol’-same ol’ over change, economics over people…

I hope that with some reflection–and maybe some warm woolies–I can find the way to keep the heat down and the energy for change flowing.

For more posts about climate change from around the world, click www.blogactionday.org.

Seeing

Look who passed by

our visitor at lunch time

K arrived home for lunch and said, “You want to see what’s on the deck?  It’s really big!”

We followed her and she was right.

Where was it going?  From where did it come?  Did it know about the snow that was coming?

We put it out in the garden.  I hope it found a cozy spot…away from the pumpkins.

Notes · Reflecting

A great idea that values others

Yesterday I attended a luncheon held by a new friend that I haven’t known very long and don’t yet know very well. The invitation read:

I’m organizing a lunch for the most interesting women I’ve met recently on Sept 25 (Friday) at my house. Could you come? As it turns out, I think that none of the women know each other except for me! So it will be especially fun. Please say yes.

My response? “Of course! How could I decline?!”

I am really glad I went. We were ten and I, in fact, only knew one woman other than the hostess. And what a group they were: artists, statisticians, counselors, teachers, writers, volunteers, aging specialists, researchers, listeners, social activists…and that’s just what I remember from their personal descriptions. Wow!

The conversation was wide ranging with participation by the entire group; no one was silent. Each story stimulated a new story with no sense of one-upping. There were no awkward silences and yet no prompts were necessary. No one took over the floor but no one held back. The group was dynamic, interesting, and interested.

The meal was delightful: a composed salad of all sorts of vegetables and greens, crusty bread with butter, and a perfect dessert of vanilla custard with a chewy cookie. It looked so lovely on the table that we hardly wanted to sit down to devour it.

What a truly special event! I felt valued by someone that I knew only a little. And I felt honored to be included among such a fine group of self-aware, competent and articulate women.

Thank you, Gretchen.

Words

Perhaps we need to learn to break frame?

For most people, to understand something new requires a cognitive antecedent. When members of the Me’en tribe in Ethiopia were shown a coloring book that included an illustration of a local antelope, they didn’t recognize the animal. They would smell the paper, twist it in their hands, feel its texture, listen to its sound, and even taste it gingerly, but they couldn’t discern any animal from its picture alone. When anthropologists transferred the drawing to cloth, a material with which the tribe was familiar, a few of the tribespeople could make out something…Scientific experiments repeatedly show that groups of educated, urbanized people pay no attention to unfamiliar objects directly in front of them if they focus too strongly on the familiar ones. What we already know frames what we see, and what we see frames what we understand.

Blessed Unrest, Paul Hawken, 2007

Reflecting

Ms. Tobin

One month ago today a friend of mine died. She was 94 years old and by all reports had a rich and full life. I first came to know her just a few days after her ninety-third birthday so what I knew of her life I learned when she told me her stories.

She and I visited almost every Friday afternoon in the hour and a half before they served dinner in her residence. It was a good time to go because the day for her had been long but when I left she was ready to join the other diners. She would leave me to bound up the stairs (literally…I couldn’t keep up with her) and cross over to the other building so she could avoid the crunch in the elevators. She didn’t like to go down too early and have to wait for a long time, but she definitely didn’t want to be late.

I say we visited most every Friday because I didn’t see her at all during the summers; she went to Montana in early June and stayed until late August. She loved Montana. It was where she was born and raised, along with her many siblings. From the time she was knee-high to a grasshopper, she spent the summers with her family on the lake. At first it was just an outdoor campsite, but as more children came along and her father sought refuge fishing and hiking, her mother made it clear that she needed walls and a roof to house them. So, Ms. Tobin’s father built a cabin. And despite the destruction of that place and the relocation to a new spot higher on the lake (what a story that was!), she returned there every summer, eventually with her own brood.

And this summer was no different. When she packed to go back in June, I stopped by to see if there was anything she needed. She was up to her elbows trying to sort and sift. Her daughter and her family were going to pick her up on their way from Kansas City and Ms. Tobin didn’t want to take up too much room. The air crackled with excitement as she considered the right sweater, which jewelry, how many socks. We didn’t even sit down to talk as she was busy with her preparations. She had notified her residence of the date she would leave so they wouldn’t worry when she didn’t show up for dinner; she had organized her papers and pictures. When we parted, I hugged her and gave her the French bisous as was our custom. She took my hands in hers and thanked me for coming and for being her friend. I wished her a bon voyage and said I looked forward to hearing all the stories of her summer when she returned. She waved and blew a kiss. She was ready to go.

The next thing I heard was that someone had called from Montana to say that she ill and asked if her name could be added to the prayer chain. I worried that this was ominous news but waited to hear more. Finally on the twelfth of August as no updates had been forthcoming, I felt like I just had to know how she was and called her son who lived nearby. There was no answer so I left a message. He called back the next day; she died the day that I had called.

It’s sad to think that I won’t see Ms. Tobin again. I will miss her stories of Montana, the adventures of her childhood, how she played the organ in Gunnison, when she become a sorority mother, how she built the new cabin, the happenings of her children and grandchildren; but what a blessing that she was able to return to spend the summer on the lake with her family one last time.

Ms. Tobin loved God and her family. And I loved Ms. Tobin.

Reflecting · Seeing

Art & Spirituality

I went with the Art & Spirituality group to see the exhibit, 2009 Pastel Society of Colorado: Mile High National Exhibition, and found it delightful. If you haven’t been, go! It is at the Longmont Museum until 27 September.

One of our group said he found that most of the pieces were “heart-work, not head-work” suggesting that they offered something at all levels. Our discussion ranged from technique to style to color to context. Wow!

(If you have an interest in art and spirituality, we meet once a month, the second Thursday morning. Sometimes we visit exhibits together and “process them” ensemble; sometimes we share the works from within the group and offer comments; sometimes we listen to writings and talk about the words. Let me know and I’ll provide you with more information.) In the meantime, go see the pastels!!

Seeing

Threads

I’m looking out my office window at a humongous spider web. Impressive in its design, it is intricate, delicate and sturdy. I took my camera out earlier this morning hoping to capture an image of it, but alas, my skills are too paltry. I spied while there, though, the web’s creator. A big, brown arachnid with legs tucked sat right in the center of its domain waiting, waiting, waiting. Now, though, it has moved on to some other venue leaving his creation to do its work. Thus far I see only a small bit of leaf blown onto the sticky net by the passing lawn mower. I feel for any creature that might find itself ensnared and yet that’s nature’s way.

Funny to think that I might have missed seeing this altogether if those incredibly fine silk threads had not caught a glimmer of the early morning sun light. It pays to watch for glimmers, but that’s another story…

I’ll keep an eye on this awesome work through the day and see what happens.

Listening

A visit to the past

As the photo in the previous post suggests, I visited the Denver Museum of Science and Nature yesterday.   It was like a trip down memory lane since we used to go there quite often with a trail of youngsters in tow.   Now my little one is taller than me, but she was still enthralled by the dinosaurs.  And she knows so much more science now that it makes wandering the path through the various exhibits a new experience.

I was glad to find however that there is a younger set (yes, even younger than sixteen) that still runs there.  Their loud exclamations of surprise and wonder fill the halls.  But it’s the little side comments that I love.  Here were the two snippets  that I overheard that almost put me on the floor rolling with laughter:

  • A tiny little boy all of three feet tall looking up at the humongous T-Rex that was fifty tall if he was an inch, said, “He isn’t so tall; he must be a baby.”
  • A little girl in the Egyptian room held her arms stiffly at her side and hopped on both feet while singsonging, “I’m hopping like a mummy…I’m hopping like a mummy!”

It tickled me good, but maybe you had to be there…

On My Walks

On My Walks

 . 

The other day walking along the trail next to my house, these signs drew my attention.  Who passing by would need reminders of these basic practices?  And yet, just a few steps away there is dog poop on the path…left, I’m sure, by someone completely surprised by and consequently ill-prepared for Fido’s need to relieve himself while outdoors.

My question is, would anyone behave differently if these signs weren’t present?  If that is true, then do these signs qualify as litter themselves?

Care to voice an opinion?